New shinys and big plans!

So by now I’ve pretty much expected that I will never be good at blogging on a regular basis, however, I have a few things in mind that might make it a bit more regular (I hope!).

So – New shiny! I decided after many years of using Samsung tablets, that I was going to give Apple another shot and have got myself an iPad Pro. What made me change might you ask? Well, it’s the “pro” part of it that won me over. A friend has had one for quite a while and I spent a bit of time playing on hers and seeing if there was any advantage to getting one or paying out for a new Samsung tablet that I wouldn’t be able to get on a pay monthly contract and I wanted to be able to have data on it for when I’m in hospital. So getting the iPad on contract was probably one of the biggest contributing factors. But one of the things that I found a big game changer was the idea of the Apple Pencil. I like to draw and colour, and when I’m at uni I tend to scribble all over notes in lectures. So having the ability to do all of those things on one device really appealed to me. So it was kind of a mixture of things that lured me to the iPad and change my hatred of all things Apple related (says she with a MacBook and iPod touch….). But I’m going to try and write a blog about why I changed, why I went back to Apple and my opinion on the iPad Pro. But I won’t be able to do those until I’ve had some time to play with the iPad and the features and pencil etc (for the record, I didn’t go with the actual Apple Pencil, I went for the Logitech one, but that’s for another blog. See? Big ideas!)

Things are weird here at the minute. If you’re reading this, then like myself, you’re probably on lockdown and being told to stay at home. It’s a bit surreal not being able to leave the house for most things, even just for a bit of a wander. But being in the “high risk/vulnerable” bracket, I’ve been told that we need to be in “total isolation” for 12 weeks, which started around the beginning of March. Luckily, my boyfriend came up from Southampton to stay with me so I wouldn’t be on my own for 12 weeks, cause let’s face it, nobody would cope being in a flat on their own for that amount of time, but with my mental health, things could’ve gone very wrong very quickly. So Chris came up to stay, which has been fantastic. He can work from home so having him around during the day is a big help in trying to keep myself reasonably sane. But I’ll go into what’s been happening in more detail soon.

So, one of my other big plans. I’m going to start a brand new blog. I want to try and make a blog that I’m comfortable sharing on facebook regularly, that I don’t pour my heart and soul into and have all 662 of my facebook friends reading (no offence to all my facebook friends!) if I’m having a rough patch and just need to vent. And I don’t like passwording things, so just starting afresh is probably the easiest solution to that.

So, in a kind of summary:

1) I’ve bought an iPad Pro and a fair few bits and pieces for it, with the aim of being able to blog a bit more regularly and blog about things that people actually want to read, instead of basically having a diary that is a venting space for me in times of turmoil/boredom!

2) I’m starting a new blog, that will have hopefully some better content and be interesting for people to read, instead of reading my ramblings. I’m not going to delete this blog however, it’s still going to be my ranting space and somewhere for me to put my thoughts into. May end up invite only, who knows?

3) If, and only if, I can manage to keep a regular blog, I’m going to venture into the world of vlogging. But we’ll see over time, cause vlogging takes a lot of time and energy!

So friends, until we meet again! Thank you all for your support over the many years, but hopefully it will continue onto my new blog and you’ll keep reading it and keep in touch!


Mental headfeck.

So it’s been a while since I blogged, apologises for that. Things have just been a bit manic, busy and sometimes just pure fecking shite.

I think this blog relates a lot to the one I did a few years back called “What is OK?”

I’m in hospital at the minute (surprise, surprise…) and for the first time in a long time, I’m really struggling with my head to get through a simple admission. Well, I say simple. It’s never easy staying in hospital. But for me, this wasn’t a complex admission. Yes, it was hard going through A&E, it always is. But I got treated well, I got all the drugs I needed as soon as I got there and ICU weren’t required.

My boyfriend and other people tell me how brave I am and how well I cope. But the thing is, underneath, I’m not coping. I’ve gotten to the point where it’s starting to show that I’m not coping, and many of the nurses and staff on the ward have asked what’s wrong as they’ve noticed I’m a lot quieter. I just want to be left alone to watch crap on my laptop or whatever. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not rude to anyone, people who are rude to nurses deserve a special place in hell, but I’m just quieter than normal.

I don’t know what the point of this post was. I just feel like I needed to get my thoughts out of my head and hopefully I can start to deal with them a bit better instead of being bottled up inside.

Until next time.


Walk the line

So people, I said I was going to try and blog a bit more, so this is me trying!

The reason my blog is titled “Walk the line” is because I feel as a brittle asthmatic, it’s what I do on a regular basis.  Every day we do things to keep us well,  but at the same time trying to live our lives to the fullest. We walk the line of pushing our lungs just too far. You can spend all your life being sensible and not pushing your luck and walking far away from the line, or you can spend your life walking the line but enjoying what you do. You can’t live your life scared of what’s going to happen the next time you open the door. 

At the moment I’m walking a line about going into hospital. My lungs are becoming less and less responsive to my medications and I’m finding myself struggling to breathe more and more often. However I’m also in the position of being too “well” for hospital, and this is the line that we walk when trying to decide when hospital is required. Do we go in and get told that we don’t really need to be there and to go home and rest, or do we wait at home until we really can’t breathe and then get told that we waited too long? It’s a difficult line to walk and even after having “brittle” asthma since I was 20, it’s a line I’m still struggling to walk. Most of the time I get it just about right, and go in at the right time.  It’s where we have to be hyper-aware of our symptoms, monitor things like peak flows better, and listen to our instincts. I’m the first person to admit I’m bad at listening to my symptoms. I’ll hold out until the last minute if I can get away with it. I know that I’m due into hospital on Wednesday for my regular aminophylline infusion, so I’m trying my damnedest (is a word, honest!) to stay out until then.

A&E is a bad place for me, it is the reason my PTSD is as severe as it is, and ironically can make my breathing worse because I get that worked up about going there, my chest gets worse. I’ve started to take lorazepam before I go because it helps stop me panicking as much, and actually helps my chest in a weird way.  It was suggested to me by my GP as my anxiety at the moment is causing a lot of problems.

This brings me onto my next point, Anxiety. There were 8.2 million cases of anxiety in the UK in 2013, and with the amount of people being diagnosed with anxiety related conditions on the rise, this number is probably much higher, coupled with the amount of people who don’t see their GP or a health professional about it. My anxiety has become more of a problem in the past 3 years since I had my nervous breakdown, but it’s become much more of a problem since Cookie moved out and I’ve been living on my own.  One of my biggest anxieties is when I open the front door, that someone will be stood waiting to attack me. I can’t see very well through my peep hole in the door so have to open it with the chain still on and then open it properly. My psychiatrist has put me on pregablin to try and help with this. It’s helping a bit and we’ve increased it from 50mg – 100mg recently due to my symptoms continually getting worse. But hopefully things will settle soon. It’s all about walking lines. I walk a line of being doped up too much to function, and not have huge anxiety issues, or I take the bare minimum and have to deal with the anxiety at a higher level. It really is a tough one. Right now I think I’ve got some kind of balance. I’m really struggling with my memory, but I think that’s a side effect of taking quetiapine last year. But I’ll get there, hopefully going back to university in September will help this.

Anyway, until next time! x



Where I’m at.

So it’s been 2 months since my last blog, and I think quite a lot has happened. I’ve always tried to follow the philosophy that it’s OK not to be OK, but I think lately I need to start taking a leaf out of my own book. Things haven’t been fantastic, in both a physical and mental state, but I don’t think I’m allowing myself to accept that it’s OK to not be OK.

I’ve had to make a few difficult decisions this summer, and it’s really getting to me. Although I’ve changed my university course to one that’s less taxing, I’ve not been able to go back to uni this year. I’ve basically decided to wait and start next year. I don’t think I’m ready this year, and there’s some stuff I really need to get on top of, learning to drive being one of them and then trying (probably badly) to learn to save up a bit, as I’m going to lose a large chunk of my benefits when I start back at uni. The choice to not go back to uni this year wasn’t an easy one. I was looking forward to getting back into some kind of routine with my day, but I also need to remember that my mental health is fragile at the minute, and the slightest thing could probably topple me.

More recently, I got discharged from hospital yesterday after what was, for me, a rough admission. I’m lucky though that one of my best friends, and my fairy god father, Chris, came up to stay while I was in hospital so I wouldn’t be on my own. I think the reason this admission was tougher than most, was that I had a respiratory arrest when I was waiting on the ambulance. From what I’ve been told, I stopped breathing at some point before the ambulance arrived, but not long after I called it because of the times they’ve got, and from what I got told, came round again in the ambulance. I know I had at least 2 shots of adrenaline and they got a cannula (tube into your vein) in me while I was in my flat. Purely from what I can see and what I can remember from it all. It’s left me really scared of being on my own. I understand that I can’t live my life scared, and I can’t always have someone here. I live on my own now, and I’ve got to learn to deal with that and not live in fear. I’m scared of being on my own now, and that’s not something that is sustainable. So I’m on my own for a few nights, then my friend, S, is coming to stay over the weekend.

Not much else going on to be honest, Apart from the fact I’m waiting on my tesco delivery?!

Until next time xxx


Boring life.

So as the title suggests, I’m leading a rather boring life at the minute. The only thing remotely exciting is my trips to and from Bradford and Manchester to stay with S/S staying with me.  To be honest, it’s probably a good thing. I’m not sure I’d be able to cope with much more at the minute, I’m just about holding things together with things like they are.

I know I talked about it in my last blog, but my MH at the minute is properly down the shitter and I’m struggling to not do something stupid most days. My CPN is only seeing me every 2 weeks because she’s always on bloody annual leave.  I could probably do with seeing her a bit more often. will try and remember to mention it to her on Wednesday when I see her.  But my psychiatrist has started me on Pregablin for my anxiety. It’s helping my anxiety, but I’m getting some really annoying side effects from it like constant twitching/involuntary jerking. I’m going to give it a few weeks and see if it settles down before I give up on it.  Getting back to uni in September would be a lot easier if I wasn’t constantly anxious about leaving my flat. Fingers crossed, eh?

I’m managing to keep my flat in some kind of reasonable state. I’ve been trying to keep on top of the dishes and my room is always tidy enough that I can cope with it. I spent a while sorting my living room out yesterday so there’s no longer boxes all over the lounge. I managed to get them all to one side of the lounge so I can use the TV in there if I want to, and I think I’m going to move my PS4 in there. It’ll more than likely help my sleep because I’m terrible and sit up till the early hours playing if I really get into a game I like. So hopefully moving it into the living room will help that.

Anyway, I’m tired and want to go to sleep.

Bye for now!



Lately I’ve found myself re-evaluating what I want out of life. I’m nearly 28 (Sept!) and am still living the life of a teenager, and up until recently, I was pretty happy with that.

I’m not sure what has changed so much that has made me think about all of this. I think I’m seeing my friends graduating from uni, buying houses, having kids and getting married has made me start to think about where I want my life to go.

I know I said in my last blog I’d dropped out of Biomedical Science at university. I think the course I’ve swapped to is going to be much better suited to me. I need to speak to the university and student finance about it all, but I’m feeling better about it and I’m excited to finally have a reason to get out of bed in the morning again. I think as well psychology with counselling is going to be better for me in the long run when it comes to trying to find work at the end of things. I already know what areas I want to specialise in and I find myself becoming more and more excited about starting.  It’s weird, I’ve got totally different emotions to what I felt when I was starting Biomed in 2015. I think I’m a bit more wary and accepting of things this time. I went into Biomed thinking I was going to fly through it and be able to keep up and would graduate in 2018. I think this time, although I know I pretty much have to do this in 3 years (SFE won’t cover more than 3 more years for me and that’s with extenuating circumstances), but for some reason I’m more optimistic and hopeful that I can manage this one.

Cookie “officially” moved out on the 7th May. I’ve had Sophie staying since then, so it’s not been a case that I went straight from having someone about constantly, to being totally on my own. I’m not sure I’d be able to cope with that in one go. But I’m glad it’s happened the way it has. Cookie and I have lived together for 8 years and there’s only so long people can put up with each other without being in a proper partnership, which contrary to popular belief, we weren’t. I’ve been making an effort to start and pack up the rest of my stuff for moving. I’ve not yet “gone live” on Manchester Move so I can’t bid on any flats or anything, but when the time comes that I do, I could be given 3 days notice that I need to move, so I need to make more of an effort to get things in order. Cookie took both the sofas, so yesterday I had a second hand sofa delivered. It’s a nice sofa and comes with a footstool that doubles up as storage. So bonus on that one.  She pretty much gutted the flat so I’ve been building up some of the stuff I need to live between now and moving. Things like kitchenware and what not. And Sophie bought me a four slice toaster which I’ve been after for an absolute age and Cookie wouldn’t let me have. So I’m pleased.  I think moving into my own new flat will be good for me though. They gave me the option of staying where I am and paying bedroom tax, but I want a fresh start in somewhere new. My current flat will always be “mine and Cookie’s flat” so getting somewhere new is going to be good for my mental health. It’ll be nice to just get some space and not constantly have to be thinking about other people or moaning at people to tidy up after themselves. I’ve spent the past 8 years trying to clean up after Cookie and it’s part of what has caused a rift between us and expedited her moving out.

My mental health still isn’t fab, and I’m in hospital again with my chest. But I’ll get there with that. Mind over matter. Going to try and work towards some kind of plan for working with uni and my chest consultant so that uni doesn’t get as impacted by my chest as it did with Biomed, and hopefully at some point in my life they’ll give me some kind of psychotherapy that I’ve been waiting on since 2016. I’m going to fu*king get there though, and this time next year you’ll hopefully see a different Vicky.



No Title.

No title is all I could think of as the title of this blog. I don’t know what to write about, I just know I need to type. So here it is.

The past few months have been tough. The past few weeks especially. A few months ago, my flatmate (Cookie) decided she wanted to move to Derby to move in with a friend there. It means for the first time ever, I’m going to be living on my own completely. I’m planning on moving into my own flat in the next few months, as we’ve set a date for the 7th May so we’ve got time to get the flat cleaned out etc.  I’m absolutely terrified. I’m not entirely sure how I’m going to cope with being on my own with my mental health being the way it is, but I’m sure I’ll figure it out. I think it’s just a case of getting on with things and crossing bridges as they come.

I’m constantly pissed off at the minute. I feel like I can’t say anything without being made to feel bad for saying it. It’s breaking me down and I know there’s very little I can do about it. People should be able to vent without being made to feel bad for doing it.

Other news? I’ve withdrawn from Biomedical Science. I just wasn’t keeping up with the amount of labs we had to do. It was 4 labs a week and I couldn’t miss any as attendance in those labs makes up a percentage of your overall grade and you need to be signed off as competent in the skills you learn in labs. So I’m changing to Psychology with Counselling. I’ll still be doing it in Salford, but hopefully it’ll be a lot easier to work from home and I’m hoping that it’ll be easier for me to keep up. That’s the aim anyway. We’ll see.

Just got to keep on keeping on.